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Commonly described stages in the development of relationships
1. Symbioses: Stage of falling in love with intensive contact/relation, The
aim is to create an attachment. Giving, taking, and idealisation. When the
partners experience a lot of love and care taking it is a solid/good basic for
the next stages.
2. Differentiation, partners learn know each other in a more realistic way and
represent/show different positions/opinions...
3. Everyday-Relationship: Partners explore more the own individuality, is more
in relation to their own person. It’s important that the partner in this stage
don’t loose the inner emotional connection
4. Rapprochement get closer again This stage is reached, when both are
self-aware and can live intimacy. They have a security and the perception of an
I and We
5. Relational Independent: This stage is reached, when the Partners develop
their own personality through contacts outside the relationship. They are
satisfied with their life and the basic of the Relationship is development and
not neediness.
Good Sex produces many positive benefits, it provides a natural healing
for you emotionally and physically. Providing your relationship with a healthy
and enjoyable way of maintaining mutual love, bonding and attachment. Sexually
active people are generally happier and live longer!
We all have a basic human need for love and affection, good sex is one of the
most effective ways of getting this, both in the heat of the lovemaking and in
the afterglow of being physically with your partner. Folk love not only the
build up to sexual intimacy they also love the afterglow.... for good reason.
during sex our body chemicals are naturally produced in a way which leads
us to feeling good.
Psychologically being wanted and loved is very important to every-one, it a
basic human need. sex meets that need head on in a way no other activity can,
the loving touch and lingering of skin against skin is the source of much
mutual healing. |
